Due to fashion magazines and tv, it has been embedded in a males mind that a woman should look a certain way...
When 82% of the woman population of the WORLD is a size 12-14...

A man says he wants a good woman, yet there could be one right before him but hes blind to it cuz of the way society has molded their minds...
Look around times have changed and so have women !

A woman with kids is considered "used goods"...
If were "single" its prolly for a damn good reason !

So what if we have a few extra pounds and a few more stretch marks then most...
Does that make us woman that horrorably bad?

So what we're stay at home moms that dont work....
Doesn't mean that we are gold diggers, maybe we have no choice or maybe we rather enjoy staying at home and watching our kids grow, maybe we enjoy being the teacher and mentor of our future generation !

So what if we have kids and are "single"..
Perhaps its for reasons YOU don't care to even try and understand cuz your minds can't get past our weight or looks !...
Maybe we're "single" cuz we got smart and left abusive relationships and don't want to chance getting into another one, maybe YOU men have enstilled fear into our hearts and minds and we're scared you'd do the same ! Doesn't mean we will take it out on you IF you give us a chance yo prove our worthiness, but of course your blind spot won't allow it !


Were not perfect and neither are you...

I know some of you are thinking this is my normal "bitch about men" shit but it aint just about men !!!

Women are just as shallow and closed minded as men...

A man walks around thinking he is all that and then some we pay no mind to him, thinking hes nothing but a playa looking for his next ride...
Maybe hes sure of himself and has respect for who he is and doesn't care what others think of him !

A man is seen with a few chicks at the bar we assume that he is fucking at least 1 maybe 2 if not all....
Maybe they are just friends and maybe they just needed a night out on town and as a good friend he said "aight let's go out" !

A man has no car we assume hes either a scrub or has gotten a owi...
Either way that still doesnt make him a bad person !

A man has kids and we assume he aint with the babys momma cuz hes a pos...
Maybe there are reasons behind it we dont try and understand cuz that is what was taught to us !

Maybe you're single cuz you were in a abusive relationship and have fears just as much as we do, but as men you won't admit that, instead you throw up walls and take it out on ALL of us women for the past bullshit you've been thru !

I think alot of people would be happier if they left their lil box of life, set the remote and magazines aside and see people for who they really are instead of what we were taught and say fuck what society says, by being shallow and closed minded who the hell knows what we're missing out on.

Time for people to make a god damn stand for themselves and stop listening to the bullshit that has been programed into our minds and listen to something else that we seem to have forgotten we have and thas a mind of our own and a heart that doesn't always lie.